Shopping for kids is one of my greatest pleasures. It takes me back to the joy of being a little girl, going to the toy store, the magic of opening a gift and the true pleasure of make believe. I wanted to do an ultimate gift guide for kids because there is just SO much out there it can be overwhelming. There is everything from learning toys, to pretend play toys, riding toys, talking stuffed animals to arts and crafts. Simply everything under the sun – toys that we enjoyed as kids which have been improved upon in ways that make me want to keep these things to play with myself! So, if you are stuck with what to get your little one, or your nieces, nephews or friend’s children – check out my gift guide for kids to find the best things out there to keep the little ones entertained while they build their imagination…
MOMMA LOVES… accessories for kids
There is just something about getting my little boy dressed in the morning. Choosing his little outfit – putting together his look for the day, even though it may end up covered in drool and grass stains… I know this time is fleeting and, before I know it, he’ll want to dress himself. I’m sure he’ll probably opt for something hideous like a Thomas the Tank Engine t-shirt and shorts, which he’ll live in for days on end. So, while I still can, I will dress up my little guy and try to enjoy the sweetness of a miniature outfit while I can. One of the best ways to complete a look is with accessories… Accessories for kids may seem unnecessary, and sometimes that’s true, but they sure are cute – and with the cold weather upon us - more important than ever. Hats, gloves, scarves may seem like an annoyance to our precious babies, but I’m not sending him out in the cold weather without proper protection – and if he looks insanely cute – all the better. So, check out my favorite accessories for kids to protect them from the harsh winter and accent their look!
MOMMA LOVES… the camouflage print – chic for us and adorable for them!
The camouflage print has been around for centuries and was used to conceal soldiers in the fields, allowing them to blend in with their environment thus harder for enemies to detect. The print didn’t become fashionable, outside of the military, until around the first world war and ever since it has been a prominent print that rivals the polka dot and herringbone in popularity. It is wearable for men, women and children and the print can be seen on everything from gowns to socks and everything in between. Recently, designers such as Michael Kors and Valentino have been using the camouflage prints in their high end designs adding a twist to otherwise very classic clothes and accessories. The versatility of the camo print makes it enormously wearable, covetable and on my wish list for both me and my little boy. I wanted to share some of my top picks with all of you…
First for the ladies…
For them:
MOMMA NEEDS… Best products for new moms
So, in lieu of Maternity Monday, I wanted to do a feature on the best products for new moms and their babies. Whether you’re a new mom or you have a friend or relative that’s about to be a new mom – I wanted to share the products that changed my life. Believe me, I bought EVERY product under the sun – from the peepee teepee (forget about it – my little boy peed in my mouth about a week after we got out of the hospital – the thing is useless) to about 5 different bouncy chairs – I am that sucker that will try anything and everything. Having said that, now I truly know what the truly genius products are. By the way, they are generally not the most expensive, flashy, beautifully designed products – kids hate that – they tend to gravitate towards the plastic ,colorful, less expensive items. This is great because you don’t have to spend too much money BUT it does mean you may have a few eye sores knocking about. My theory is, whatever works. So, here are my top picks for all new moms, mom’s to be, or even mom’s still in their first year.
1) The Baby Monitor. I actually don’t have this. I have the Motorola one that is hardwired in his nursery, but THIS is on my xmas list and I have friends who have it – its a camera monitor that connects to a free app for your mobile device that allows you to check in on what’s happening with your little one whether you’re in the next room or out to dinner. Absolutely genius piece of technology that will allow you to check in on your baby from just about anywhere!
2) The Happiest Baby on the Block book. This book changed my life. Seriously. I was in the throws of newborn madness, not understanding anything about babies or what my little guy needed. I read this book and in seconds I could calm my baby down using Dr. Karp’s techniques. My husband couldn’t believe it and it gave me the confidence that I could handle the new mom thing… A must have.
3) The C-Section panty. I had an emergency C-Section. After 14+ hours of labor we realized this little guy was not coming out the old fashioned way – so he entered the world through the sunroof. It was not what I had been anticipating, but at 9lbs 5oz that big baby only had one way he was coming out of me. Recovery was tough and I am still a bit freaked out by the scar. These underwear are amazing because they’re like Spanx helping to compress everything, which you need to do post partum anyway, and there is a patch that runs along where your scar to give you that extra protection and healing. I would wear this under another compression garment and it gave me the security I needed. I highly recommend this to all c-section moms!
4) The hands free pumping bra. This one is for the breast feeders/pumpers out there. My baby was so big that I had to start pumping immediately in order to get my milk production up and supplement every breast feed with an extra ounce of pumped. I felt like I was tethered to either my son or my breast pump. Once I discovered the hands free bustier I was on cloud nine. I could read a book, write an email, even engage with my son while this bustier and my breast pump did the work.
5) The Aiden + Anais burpy bib. You simply can NOT have enough burp clothes. You use them constantly and you will have them in every room in your house. I was seriously using about 20 a day with all the spit up and burping. These Aiden + Anais are the best – super absorbent, plush, adorable prints AND they double as a bib! They easily sit on your shoulder for burping but can also snap around your babies neck when the drooling starts…
6) This zipper one piece. I can not begin to explain the frustration of snaps. I had countless adorable pi’s for Max that were snap closures that I used, maybe, one once before I realized my life shouldn’t have to be this hard. When you are dealing with a wriggling little baby – especially during those middle of the night diaper changes – trying to line up snaps is the worst… Forget about it. My friend (who has 3 kids) told me to get the zipper one pieces and I have never looked back. Easy breezy – one zip, a snap at the top and done.
7) Following on the frustration of snaps – the swaddle blankets… Again, very cute, but trying to get those swaddles just right and tight enough so that little one can’t break out of it… Impossible! ESPECIALLY during those middle of the night feeds and changes when you can barely see straight. I stocked up on these Summer Infant Swaddle Me velcro swaddles. They come in cotton, organic cotton, micro fleece and in various colors and prints. They are GAME CHANGERS. When I would lie my son down and put his little feet in the bottom of this swaddle and velcro him up it was almost pavlovian – he would just go to sleep the minute he heard the velcro. One more thing that could make my life a tiny bit easier.
8) The monkey chair. Yes, it is hideous. A friend of mine had one and I would laugh at how ugly it was when I would visit her during my pregnancy. Night #3 after bringing baby Max home from the hospital I was frantically ordering this monkey chair on Diapers.com at about 3 in the morning. When my husband woke up I told him our lives were about to change – the monkey chair would be there the next day. Our lives did change. This chair is AMAZING. The toy bar we took off until he was about 5 months and could enjoy it more – but the chair vibrates and can be rocked and is so lightweight and portable you can bring your baby from room to room while he snoozes or just hangs out. I could shower, cook, even do some work while Max happily hung out in his chair. Recently, I was at a friend’s house who has an 8 week old and I found hidden behind her sofa, the monkey chair. I screamed, you got it! And she sheepishly admitted she caved and that she too had been converted to monkey chair lover.
9) The Baby Einstein take along tunes. Its a simple idea – a little box that plays various classical music tunes with the press of a large colorful button. There are colorful lights, its easy to hold, chew and it truly is THE BEST baby toy on the market. Max is now 18 months and he can STILL be entertained by it.
10) The whale tub. I have had several baby baths and this one is by far the best. My son is OBSESSED with bath time, in part, because of this tub. It was comfortable for him as a newborn, its slightly padded along the back and it has a little shelf for him to sit and then then when he got bigger we could remove the shelf when he was able to sit on his own. Of course, he grew out of it months and months ago, but I will always recommend the whale tub – it set him up for a lifetime of enjoying the bath.
11) The Snug-a-puppy cradle and swing. So, mine was actually the snug-a-bunny but its the same thing – it swings gently from side to side, it holds them tightly and snuggly, it plays various lullabies or relaxing sounds and it even has a mirror with revolving toys that spins around for them to look at. It is a nap machine. Put your baby in this, turn it out and s/he’ll be out like a light in no time.
12) The amazing books. Story time is SO important, its a great opportunity for teaching, learning, engaging and language development. Sometimes it seems like they’re not getting much out of it, but keep it up. I struggled when Max would just crawl away and seem disinterested, but my pediatrician suggested putting him on my lap with some snacks (this is obviously when he was a bit older) and have him engaging with the snacks picking them out of the cup and eating while I read to him. It worked and now he will grab books and bring them to me all the time – and of course these books aren’t just for the first year but stories they will enjoy for years to come. There are of course all the classics: Dr. Seuss, Goodnight Moon, Where the Wild Things Are, but I wanted to share some future classics. A few books I’ve found and love and have memorized at this point because my son enjoys them so much…
13) The Summer Infant tiny diner placemat. I am obsessed with this. It rolls up neatly, so easy to put in your purse when going out for dinner or to a friends house. Basically its a placemat that suctions to the table and it has a little catcher that hangs over the edge of the table. When they’re first learning to eat you can pretty much forget about plates and cutlery – this mat is perfect because you can just lay food out for them so they can feed themselves and you don’t have to worry about the cleanliness of the table their eating off.
14) The clip on table chair. I actually don’t have this because I inherited a friend’s high chair when she moved, but I have several friends who have this and it’s amazing. It clips on to any table (without damaging the table) its pretty light weight and easy to bring with to restaurants or to people’s houses. This is key because, obviously, restaurants generally have high chairs but when going over to a friend of family member’s home (where high chairs might not be in abundance) this is amazing!
15) Leap Frog’s My Friend Scout (or Violet – she’s purple). I am slightly obsessed with this toy. Its a cute stuffed animal that has a usb port so you can plug it into your computer to download some of your little one’s favorite songs and upload his or her name, favorite color, food and animal – so the toy is customized for baby! Press the paws for various songs and personal messages for your baby. I wish they had this when I was a kid – its Teddy Ruxpin on a whole other level.
MOMMA NEEDS… rain gear for us and them
Well, with winter and fall often comes rain… Here in Southern California we may not get the snow but around this time of year we get all the rain we been missing. My son got to experience it for the first time about 2 weeks ago and the British boy in him was just obsessed with the puddles. He was loving jumping and splashing in the puddles (which deeply upset me since he was in a nice new pair of sneakers) and then he took things up a notch and decided to just belly flop into the tiny pool of rain water. Well, that was it, fun over – and I hauled him inside to get him out of his soaking wet clothes and decided it was time to invest in some rain gear. His rain coat and wellies quickly arrived and I was so excited to see precipitation in the forecast and sure enough, down it came. I am so thrilled to have bought appropriate attire for the him because he could not get enough! He didn’t mind that the boots were heavy and slowed him down – he waddled around having the time of his life… I put on my trusty Hunter wellies and joined him and we had the most amazing afternoon splashing about. Now that I have his rain gear (and of course still have mine from years of London living) I can’t wait to do it again! So, I wanted to share with you some of my top picks for the rain – chic for us and fun for them now you don’t have to stay in doors when its pouring.
And for the little ones…
MOMMA NEEDS… ankle boots for fall – for us and them!
One of the things I get asked all the time is: “What boots do I need for fall?” I’ve already done my motorcycle boot post (which I love for their timeless style and comfort) but I really wanted to do a post on my new favorite boot, the ankle boot! My latest boot purchase is the Rag & Bone Newbury ankle boot. The heel is high enough to give a polished look but low enough to allow me to comfortably run around town (and after my increasingly speedy toddler). I love the look of them with skinny jeans and leggings but they can be just as cute with a little dress or skirt (with nice warm tights until the weather changes). Anyway, I wanted to show a range of options in varying heel heights, silhouettes (Isabel Marant has of course ticked every boot need/want imaginable)and at various price point. Of course, I couldn’t leave out our little ones, so there are some unbelievably adorable boots for them as well!
First for us:
And for them…
MOMMA NEEDS… bright tops for us & our little ones
A photographer once told me that he found people always looked best in his photos when they wore bright tops. People often stay with the safety of black, white, or neutral. In actual fact, bright colors bring light and color to faces, making them look healthier and happier. I have to say, whilst my closet is largely filled with a neutral palette, every time I wear a pop of color, I get compliments. Bright colors are usually reserved for spring and summer, but it’s winter, when days are short and our skin is pale, we actually benefit the most from wearing color! So, this is the first of a series of upcoming posts featuring a more colorful palette. Not only do bright colors illuminate our skin and look incredibly cute on our little ones, but they also help us keep an eye on each other in the park. Your little one will always know where you are in one of these tops and likewise, you’ll be able to keep close track of them too. When it comes to bright, here are my top top picks!
First for us:
for our little ladies:
For the little guys…
MOMMMA LOVES… mommy and me beauty – cosmetics to enjoy with your little ladies
I have a boy. A beautiful boy that I love beyond words, comprehension or reason. If I ever have another baby it will also be a boy. We joke that my husband has yy chromosomes because he is one of 5 boys and all the boys have boys. I love my little boy so much that I don’t mind that I’ll never get to shop on the pink side of the store (for one of my own anyway), I’ll never get to pass on all my fabulous shoes and bags, and I’ll never get to do all the fun beauty activities that my friends enjoy with their little girls. None of the manicures, make up training and skin care lessons I enjoyed with my mother. I mean, Max does like to play with my makeup… And by play I mean try to eat, smash and grab. That’s okay, I can live vicariously through all of you moms out there with little ladies. You guys can have all the fun and experiment with pink hair, sparkle polish and glitter under the guise of entertaining your daughters… This isn’t big girl beauty – its more Katy Perry beauty – but its fun, fabulous and will build the most amazing memories for you and your little one. So, I share with you the mommy and me beauty cosmetics that you can enjoy with your gorgeous girls.
Happy Thanksgiving!
MOMMA NEEDS… cardigans – oversized for me, sweet and cozy for the little one.
When the air gets crisp and the days short, there’s nothing I love more than to throw on oversized cardigans. I’m not talking Santa Claus size, I’m talking longer and a little roomy – a boyfriend or grampa cardi but slimmer and more feminine. It’s equal parts comfy cozy as it is effortlessly chic. Fantastic for running around on errands, going out for an intimate dinner as well as cuddling up with your little one on the couch, these cardigans are not too sweet and not at all frumpy. They are the ultimate in cardigans. For our little ones who need extra layers in the colder weather – there is nothing cuter than a little cardigan. Be it chunky knit, fair isles printed, autumnal themed or just sweet and adorned – it keeps our boys and girls warm while looking insanely cute. Here are some of my top picks…
First for us:
for our little ones…